Engaged Enrichment and Marriage Preparation

Preparation for a Sacramental Marriage

The Church must therefore promote better and more intensive programs of marriage preparation, in order to eliminate, as far as possible, the difficulties that many married couples find themselves in, and even more to favor positively the establishing and maturing of successful marriages. Marriage preparation has to be seen and put into practice as a gradual and continuous process. It includes three main stages: remote, proximate, and immediate preparation. (Familiaris Consortio, 66)

Remote Preparation (Nazareth Project and Parish Cooperation)

Remote preparation for marriage begins in early childhood and continues through the teen years. Such preparation is accomplished through the examples of family life and through the Teaching Office of the Church. The primary responsibility for remote preparation lies within the context of the family and parish community. The Nazareth Project seeks to support families and local parishes with age-appropriate formation.

Proximate Preparation (Nazareth Project)

Proximate preparation for marriage begins when a dating relationship becomes serious and marriage becomes a real possibility. The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops has set forth specific guidelines regarding marriage preparation programs, and the Wisconsin Catholic Conference has adapted those guidelines for particular use among the Dioceses of Wisconsin. The Nazareth Project is responsible for insuring that proximate preparation in the Archdiocese of Milwaukee meets these pastoral guidelines. A minimum of six months preparation is required for all marriages in the Archdiocese of Milwaukee.

Immediate Preparation (Parish Based)

Immediate preparation for marriage takes place in the parish setting. While The Nazareth Project does not directly engage in immediate preparation, we do support parishes and clergy with necessary resources.

Retreat Opportunities

These retreat opportunities are for Engaged Couples who would like to explore their relationship more in-depth. 

Catholic Engaged Encounter Weekend Retreat 

(This program was established in 1978 and modeled after Marriage Encounter. It is being offered as a new alternative to the diocesan day-long program)

A weekend to be shared by a couple in honest and intensive communication about their future lives together, discussing attitudes about every aspect of their relationship, including money, children, sexuality and natural family planning, and their roles in the church and society. For many couples--even couples who have been together for many years--it is a unique opportunity for completely open and honest communication, and often serves as a new foundation for a more enriching life together. Interfaith couples are very welcome to attend this weekend. All materials, 5 meals, and overnight lodging in shared rooms (brides will share with brides, grooms will share with grooms) is included in the fee. Sunday Mass will be celebrated. The retreat begins on Friday Evening at 7 p.m. and will conclude on Sunday afternoon at 3:30 p.m.